One of .....'s girls

I bet everybody know a guy like this. Not necessarily because there are so many of them, but because those who are out there usually is pretty well-known. This guy who are pretty handsome, but not drop dead gorgeous. Charming as few. I actually dare say, scaresly charming. The girls flock around him as flies to shit. And I you just can't help it, they actually reminds me of flies sometimes. To the guys he's a great mate. As a friend in general, he is wonderful. Everybody likes this guy. And he is so kind. There's not a bad bone in his body. However, he's an expert on getting in trouble. Mostly because of these already metioned girls. Oh, the drama.

Anyway. It's actually these girls I would like to talk about. A typical girl like this is usually between 16 and 20. The guy in this example is usually in his late twenties. The girls are pretty good looking, and try their best to live up to his image and what they think he might want. Of course, they fall in love with him. Probably right after the first time he fucked them. And of course they become one of his fuck buddies. Yes, he's got quite a few of them. Imagine the drama. They all become clingy and jealous. They all know he got others, and that to him it's just sex. And maybe a friendship. But they still get their hearts broken. And here comes the best, and most pathetic part: They all come running back to him. All he need to do is give them a hug, or maybe send them an sms. It's so easy. And so cheesy.

Now, these girls don't have a lot of respect around town. They all get a stamp saying: "one of ...'s girls". Insert whatever name you think fits. Now, what makes these girls pathetic is basically the "falling in love"-part, the fact that they always come running, no matter what, and the expectations they for some unbelievable reason possesses.

Another humorous aspect is the respect-part. None of them have any respect around town. Still they, for some reason, get the feeling of being somewhat special, because they get to fuck this guy. After all, he is pretty popular. And to be quite frank, that is very often the reason why they fuck him in the first place. In addition to his looks and charm. And also the reason why they keep fucking him. They might fall in love with him, but few, if any, of them really know him.

If these people walk around in the rock n' roll-scene, it becomes even funnier by the way. Those girls definitely try to dress the part and talk the talk. They wave the banner of "sex, drugs and rock n' roll", but aren't even close to living up to it.

Now, here's a question: How do you avoid becoming one of these girls? Well, the easiest is of course to not fuck him. But let's say that you do. You don't become one of these girls just by fucking him once. That's not the way it works. So go ahead. Try him out.

The difficulty kicks in if you start fucking this guy on a somewhat regular basis. Do you still have to become one of his girls? Not necessarily. Yes, some will always put that stamp on your head. That you will just have to live with. But if you stay away from two of the most important points here, you might be well on your way to avoiding it. Don't fall in love with the guy, and don't go running to him every time he whistles. Say no every now and then, and let him come to you at times. I mean, it should work both ways, shouldn't it? And of course it makes it a lot easier if you are already known to have your own opinion and doing whatever you want. If you have had your share of one night stands in the past, and are seen as someone who stands on her own two feet, it takes a lot more to become one of those girls. And if you do, seriously, tragedy have struck.

Now, go out and have some fun.